High Maintenance
by Arsa Dhima
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XYhGO8WHqz0
Dhima has
created a film that speaks volumes about relationships and gender. In regards
to relationships, the woman's quickness to terminate the marriage for a new
"model" operates as a direct parallel to our cultures expendable view
of relationships. As divorce rates in our society climb, marriages are entered
hastily and treated loosely. Dhima seems to commenting on the fact that
marriages are often viewed as consumer relationships. As the woman's desires
and expectations change, so must her mate or model. The viewer can infer from
her Internet shopping for the replacement husband that she was afforded the
same freedom of choice of her first model/husband. As a result, the viewer
knows that her first husband, at some point in time, represented the woman's
desires for a mate. The woman's
callousness toward such a drastic life change, mechanically kissing the old
husband being hauled away while transferring the wedding band to her new model,
confirms Dhirma's commentary on our culture's lightheartedness toward something
so intimate and emotionally impactful.
I also
thought Dhirma's attention to sound was a powerful component in her film. For
example, the opening scene of the couple chewing in stereo, revealed the
"robotic" nature of their intimacy. The truth Dhirma seemed to be
aiming at is how rote relationships can become if spouses become too
self-involved and disconnected. In this way, the fantasy of each spouse's
robotic nature becomes not only great science fiction, but a warning to all
those who've neglected their spouse's needs.
Gender
played a powerful role in the physical choices and actions of Dhima's
characters, as well. For example, the last scene shows the new rugged,
adventurous male, massaging his elated wife, while asking her to recount her
day. It would appear that she's found the perfect model husband, a balance of
masculine spontaneity and romantic sensitivity, but his ulterior motives are
revealed when she herself is ironically powered down so that he can drink a
beer, smoke, and watch TV in peace. Dhirma seems to not only be espousing some
gender stereotypes, but she also seems to be saying that no matter how acutely
a potential mate meets our checklist, they will still be flawed, because they
will still be human.